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The truth about Life abroad: Is it worth it? 
The idea of living in Switzerland, France, or the UK is a dream embraced by many. In Kenya, a life abroad almost automatically elevates your social standing,...
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From Geneva's Luxury to France's Modesty to Comoros' Fight for Change
I saw her a couple of times, Kiki, and only knew her as the femme de ménage (cleaning lady).  Little did I know about the other life she had lived as an...
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A sibling’s perspective on living abroad 
During a video call with my siblings, I had a glance at my nephew and almost mistook him for my younger brother because of his height.   My...
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Childhood Grief: The Loss of a Friend
Everyone noticed Hillary. He was funny, charming, and had a presence that spoke volumes even in silence. He could easily join any conversation and always...
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Culture Shocks in the French Education System 
The education system in my country is funny.  To date, I still ask myself why teachers punished me for walking calmly to the washroom instead of...
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Street life in Geneva: Are beggars racists or just choosers? 
It’s a beautiful, warm evening in the heart of Geneva. I take a stroll through the streets of Bel-Air, loving the sense of relaxation it brings me.  My...
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A Trip to Belgium: Are women now making the first move? 
It’s hard to ignore the topic on love, dating and relationships. You’ve probably been waiting long enough to hear about the dating scene in France.  Well,...
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Her Reflection: A story of quiet power 
Haizles, beckles, nickles, stiples—a void on the surface.   The clock was ticking, seasons had changed, clothes outgrown, and yet there she...
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My Unforgettable hiking experience at Les Trois Becs 
As I struggled to keep warm, hydrate my lips, catch my breath, and summon the energy to keep climbing, I kept asking myself, why did I decide to come...
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My Culture Shocks in France 
Let me take you on a trip down the lane of culture shocks I experienced in France.  Smoking is a culture not a taboo  When I watched Emily...
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Black, Woman, and French: Confronting Prejudices One Smile at a Time
A look at me can easily make you guess my age. That is certainly not over 30, let alone over 25. Some might even think I’m 17. Yet despite this youthful...
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An emotional farewell to the end of my contract 
I have an opening for this blog that you can reflect on or not.  “Each experience in life, gives us a defined and unique feeling that we might not...
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Crazy Questions I've Been Asked About Me and My Country
As I start this blog, I’d like to first acknowledge that ignorance can be bliss. I believe that too much knowledge can take away the simple joys...
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A Paris Trip Gone Wrong: Abby in Paris Again
Oh Paris! A trip to your heart engraved mine with a mark, should I caption it a beauty spot or a scar?  With the glamour of the Louvre Museum, Disneyland,...
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What it means to be a foreigner
Just two months into my time in France and a wave of loneliness hit me like never before. Winter was in full swing and even though I had watched Western...
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Muchas gracias, Barcelona
This coastline, these waves, this sand, these people, this world. I sat near the waves and thought back to all the days I had dreamed about this. I watched...
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Abby in Paris
After watching Emily in Paris, I was filled with excitement, eagerly dreaming and planning my future stay in France. I envisioned how my wardrobe would...
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Behind the smile: My life as an Introvert 
Introversion shapes how I navigate the world, especially when it comes to conversations. Often, I find myself at a loss for words, unsure of how to keep...
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The Library Gaze
As I gaze over, my curiosity piques, I can’t help but wonder what thoughts are occupying her mind. She’s sitting across from me, engrossed...
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Was it racism or I was just overthinking?
The online world is a whole different realm where you can be whoever you want to be. That’s where I met my friend, who I’ll call “the one.”  When...
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His Tale
He sat in the wooden chair, a lamp beside him casting light into the darkness. It was just enough to cast his shadow on the gloomy old walls, which could...