A Glimpse into the life of an Introvert 

Introversion shapes how I navigate the world, especially when it comes to conversations.

I often find myself at a loss for words, unsure of how to keep the conversation flowing. In those moments, I simply smile and nod, even when I don’t fully agree with what’s being said.

Sometimes, I agree just to end the conversation, relishing the quiet that follows. Other times, when the other person’s opinion feels too strong, I stay silent, knowing that engaging would only prolong the back-and-forth.

Meeting new people or joining a conversation with strangers requires quick thinking on my part. As an introvert, I find myself in situations where I’m surrounded by interesting topics and good company, yet I remain hyper-aware of my presence.  

Even when I do speak, I’m cautious about the words I choose and how I deliver them. After speaking, I need five to ten minutes of silence to reflect on whether my point made sense and to recharge before jumping back in. 

Of course, I’m not always quiet and reserved. With those people I am very familiar with, I’m quite different. I talk, laugh, dance, sing, act crazy and joke freely. My responses vary depending on the situation and who I’m with.

But as much as I enjoy being social, my alone time is crucial for recharging. After spending time entertaining one or two people, my energy depletes quickly, and I often find myself zoning out. Even in the company of friends, I struggle to maintain the same level of energy from start to finish.  

My social battery needs frequent recharging, and when it runs low, I go quiet. This often prompts others to ask if I’m okay, but there’s really nothing wrong, just picture your phone with a 0% battery. 

Being an introvert also means I’m often the keeper of secrets. I listen a lot, because people interpret my silence as a listening ear.  

I’m mostly surrounded by extroverted people who talk nonstop, and I can’t help but marvel at their ability to keep going without needing a break. Despite their constant chatter, I enjoy their company, as I talk less. 

In social situations, my smile becomes my greatest defence. I use it as a shield, allowing me to sit back and not engage too deeply in conversations while I nod and smile.

It saves me from having to respond when I’d rather just observe.

So, as an introvert, how do you get away?